Anyway, my sister-in-law Lucia told me a couple weeks ago that she had a blue car toddler bed in her basement for when I decided I wanted it. Apparently her son never even used it, and it's just been sitting there. Well, Canon had always been pretty good at going down in his crib, and I figured that if I kept his routines the same, maybe he would be good at going down on a bed too. So, I figured the time was coming close to make the transition from a crib to a bed. I was trying to get Canon excited about the idea by talking about him getting a bed for about 2 days before we went to my brother's house to get it. (We ended up having to return the next day with a truck because we couldn't disassemble it, and it didn't fit in the car or their van.) I was planning on feeling it out for a couple more days to see if Canon would be ready for the new bed. I asked Mark to drop us off at the park for the weekly play-group, and when we got back I saw Mark was taking apart the crib and getting the bed into its place. I guess I didn't really communicate my full intentions very well. Oops! My bad! So Mark got it all set up, just in time for Canon's nap!
| This is the new car bed, where the crib used to be! |
When Canon saw the new bed he was shouting, "Car! Car!" He is obsessed with cars, trucks...pretty much anything with wheels. He L-O-O-O-O-V-E-S his new bed. He climbed right onto it and started riding down the "hood" like a slide...a very short slide, but that's what he does. Here's a video. At the end of the video he gets hurt, but it doesn't take long for him to calm down, and he's never done it since...so he still likes his bed.
| Crawling up and down. |
| Rolling around, getting used to the new experience, without bars! |
| kicking his feet up, not letting me get a good shot of him. |
The first time I had to put Canon down into the bed, he refused to go to sleep. He was so ecstatic and just wanted to play with the car. I listened at the door and heard a thump...thump...Wheee! I had to go in to him 4 times. I actually had to just rock him to sleep before putting him down. I was expecting it to take a few days of Canon getting up each time he was supposed to be sleeping. That same night, I put him down awake, and he actually just stayed there and went to sleep. In fact, every time Canon wakes up he waits for someone to come and get him. Both my mother-in-law and I keep trying to convince Canon that he can get up when he's awake. That's what's so great about being in a bed, you can get out of it whenever you want. For whatever reason, habit or otherwise, he needs to be convinced to get out of bed. Maybe it's just that he likes his bed so much he just wants to hang out there...I don't know.
I read online that you should make a big production of the bed by inviting everyone to come see the new bed. This helps the child become more excited about the bed to help them transition. For some reason that really stuck with me, and I tell Canon to show it to anyone who comes over to the house. However, I don't think that Canon really needs to get any more excited about it. Last night we had Uncle Rob and Aunt Li-Ling with their kids over for dinner and FHE. When I told Canon he should show Uncle Rob the bed, he actually took Rob's hand and brought him from the dining room to the bedroom. He doesn't take just anyone's hand, even when they offer it. I thought it was pretty cute! He seems to be doing just fine with the change. So well that he actually didn't give me any troubles going down last night while we were having a rather fun, loud party going on. It was fantastic!!
"Thank you so much, Lucia! The bed is a total hit!"
| Canon couldn't be happier! |